Showing posts with label natural hair. Show all posts
Showing posts with label natural hair. Show all posts

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Deeply Rooted: Getting Longer, Stronger Natural Hair Using the Lunar Method


When I was a little girl, my mother used to trim my ends every blue moon. I never thought to ask why-- this was the way things had always been, the way my grandmother had trimmed her ends, the way her grandmother had done before her. Some things you didn’t argue with. Some things just were.

Little did I know that our family tradition was deeply rooted in both indigenous wisdom and empirical evidence.

Native peoples recognized thousands of years ago that the natural rhythms of the earth were mirrored within our own bodies. Some cultures deified different aspects of nature, like the sun, moon, and stars, while others  worshiped nature itself, building monuments like Stonehenge and Chichen Itza in celebration of astronomical phenomena like solstices and equinoxes.

In the late seventeen hundreds, scientists began tracking tides, spurring them to formally investigate the relationship between the cycles of the moon and changing tide levels. Here’s what they discovered:

  • Tides are created by the gravitational force of the moon pulling on water.
  • This force is highest when the moon is full or new, because the earth, moon and sun are aligned.
  • During the new and full moon, high tides are at their highest and low tides are at their lowest. This is called Spring Tide.
  • When the moon is one quarter full, the moon and sun’s gravitational pull cancel each other out, causing the opposite effect: weak or Neap Tides.

So what does the moon’s gravitational pull have to do with getting thicker, longer, stronger, and healthier natural hair?

Nine months ago I discovered an interesting theory by a veteran holistic stylist named Anthony Morrocco, a simple yet profound theory that he has based a multi-million dollar haircare brand around: The same gravitational forces that impact the water outside of your body impact the water inside your body.

Simply put, if you want your hair to grow fast, you should work with gravity, not against it.

The best time to cut your hair to encourage growth is during Spring tide when gravity is pulling water outward. Cutting during Neap tide encourages stagnation, which makes it the ideal time to remove unwanted body hair.


For the past nine months I have been using the Lunar method to promote hair growth, and so far I love my results!



Not only is my natural hair thicker than ever and growing like a weed, I only have to trim my ends four times each year, on the full moon closest to the winter and summer solstices and vernal and autumnal equinoxes.

This year marks a once in a lifetime growth opportunity for naturalistas like me. The last full moon of 2016 coincides with the winter solstice, a once every twenty year or so phenomena that won't happen again until 2094.

That makes this Wednesday, December 22nd the most beneficial growth cutting day for the next 78 years.

During the winter solstice, the sun is farthest away from the earth, causing the tides to swell or ‘bulge’. These bulges have been known to cause high tides or even coastal flooding when the gravitational effect of the equinox is combined with the natural increased pull of the full moon.

For many indigenous cultures, the Solstice also signifies the beginning of a new season and a spiritually significant period of rebirth. That makes it the best possible time to set goals and start the healthy hair habits that will ensure you achieve them.

Here are four simple tips that will help you maximize your length retention on the best beneficial hair-cutting day for the next 78 years.




While your hair is only about five percent water, the scalp it grows out of is over sixty percent water. Healthy hair starts at the roots, so it’s essential that you drink enough water to maintain a strong and healthy scalp. To make sure you’re maximizing growth potential, challenge yourself to drink one ounce per pound of sixty percent of your body weight in water ounces during the week of the solstice. To easily calculate what your ideal water intake is, simply take half your body weight plus ten percent, then switch pounds for ounces.

For example, a 150 pound woman would need to drink a minimum of 90 ounces (75 pounds plus 15 pounds) of water each day.






Sage has naturally antibiotic and antiseptic properties and has been used for centuries to treat hair loss and stimulate cell regeneration. Try this easy three ingredient sage oil to stimulate your scalp before and after the Winter Solstice.

Combine one part whole sage, one part castor oil, and two parts Olive (very dry hair), Sweet Almond (dry hair), or Grapeseed (normal hair) oil in a medium skillet. Heat on low about fifteen minutes or until oil turns dark (but is not burnt or smoking). Strain the oil into dropper or roll on bottle. Apply to scalp nightly, massaging the oil into your scalp for three minutes before bed.





I have tried a lot of crap methods, but to me nothing works better that trimming freshly washed and detangled hair with a pair of nail scissors. The twists allow you to clearly see where ends are split or heat damaged, and the nail scissors are sharp, guaranteeing a precise trim.

I start by detangling my dripping wet hair with a denman brush. After detangling a two inch square section, I twist it loosely into a two strand twist. Once I have detangled my entire head, I trim the dead or damaged ends of each twist with my nail scissors.

Side note-- I save my ends, rolling them up inside a list I make of all the the things I want to leave behind in the coming season. Then I burn the hair and the list in a symbolic ritual of new beginnings; but do you.




Using a seed or carrier oil or butter, fully saturate the last two inches of your freshly trimmed twists. As they dry they will continue to absorb the oil, forming a protective barrier for your sensitive ends and aiding in length retention. You can even use the sage oil from step two to help protect your ends.

These four easy steps will help you maximize hair growth in the upcoming season. By learning the Lunar method, you can harness the power of gravity to improve the condition of your scalp and grow long, strong, beautifully healthy natural hair.

Take advantage of the best possible day to get a fresh start. As the winter solstice begins a new season, consider beginning new healthy hair habits that will benefit yourself and your family for generations to come.

Friday, October 14, 2016

Who’s on Deck: 18 Up and coming vlogs worth their weight in gold



Last week in our very first Hair and Now (a repeating segment which comes out on Fridays if I remember to publish it), MYStory BOTB brought you the Ten Commandments of Natural Hair. While I religiously(pun intended) follow commandment 10 (Thou shalt not idolize YouTubers), there are few things I love more than watching a Vlogger beat the hell out of her face, slay a frontal, or disclose a new technique.


Most naturals know about hair vloggers with huge followings like @Naptural85 and @NappyFu. But with hundreds of would-be QueenB’s on the internets, separating help from hype can seem harder than becoming fluent in French through DuoLingo (still at 7% :-().


With millions of vloggers out there, who has time to discover new faces?


I do.


My company, Golden Goddess Cosmetics, specializes in natural hair and skincare. So I am always looking for the latest tips, tricks, and techniques to keep my hair on #slay, day after day, after day. Over the past six months I have discovered some awesome Youtubers whose innovation and execution are so consistently flawless that they are well on their way to becoming goddesses in their own right.


This week in Hair and Now, I am excited to share with you some of the best vloggers you’ve never heard of.


Who’s on Deck: Up and coming vlogs worth their weight in gold


  1. The DIY Divas: recipes, regrowth, and results
    1. Felicia Mesadieu: Whether you’re looking to regrow edges or breathe life into your curls with a hot oil treatment, Felicia’s got you covered. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @FeliciaMesadieu.
    2. Kharyzma4u: I am a huge fan of DIY products because of the benefits they provide for natural hair. Many YouTubers skimp on ingredients, but not Kharyzma4u. Not only does she use the purest ingredients available, she also takes the time to educate viewers on the benefits that those ingredients provide-- all while keeping her videos fun and relatively short. She’s the Bill Nye of DIY.  Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @kharyzma4u.
    3. Praise Onaturals: This Ghanaian soon-to-be-sensation has the healthiest hair I have seen in a long time. Her DIY deep conditioner recipe changed my life, and I could listen to her soothing accent all day. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or Like her Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/praise.onaturals


  1. The Innovators: wigs, weaves, and crochet techniques
    1. AbsolutelyErica: Erica is the queen of all things Kanekalon. Her creative use of wigs and braid hair is such an inspiration, we should be writing sonnets about it. Instead, we’ll just tell you to Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @Absolutely_Erica
    2. JazzNicole: If you haven’t heard of her yet, I guarantee you will have before the end of the year. JazzNicole is the innovator behind the individual crochet method you see me sporting below. Her tutorials are short and easy to follow, and I personally am eternally grateful to her for shaving six hours off my faux loc install time. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @queen.jazznicole.


Ultimate #Duckface

    1. EyeDareU TV: You won’t believe how natural crochets can look until you check out EyeDareU TV’s YouTube channel. If you’re seeking inspiration, check out her transformation Tuesdays series. I’ve already found three styles I can’t wait to try out. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @DareShawnMUA.
    2. SHIA Beauty: Have you ever wanted to learn how to make a wig in twenty minutes? Well, obviously. SHIA Beauty serves up fun, funky, and fast wig tutorials that even my eight year old niece could follow. And dont even get me started on her lipstick game. Click the link above for her YouTube channel and beg her to join IG. Come thru, Queen! Come thru.
    3. Beautyby Smilez: I wish I had known about Beautyby Smilez when I was in my TWA phase. This black Brit beauty is the undisputed queen of ‘fake it til you make it’. Her knotless crochets look like 4B blowouts. Her DIY braided wigs look like box braids. ‘Some people are saying’ that she’s the next Peakmill. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @beautybysmilez.


  1. The Tress Protectors: straight2curly, protective styles, head wraps
    1. NoLyeNapturallyMe: Though she could easily fit into any section, I consider NoLye to be a Tress Protector beaucse she always goes above and beyond by choosing styles that not only look amazing and supernatural, but also allow her to protect her fine natural hair. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or like her page at Facebook.com/NoLyeNapturallyMe
    2. JShanee: We 4C Chicks have to stick together! JShanee knows all about your shrinkage struggles, definition dilemmas, and growth goals. Plus her skin is so flawless it’s clear she has been personally blessed by the melanin gods (#nofilterneeded)  Click the link above for her YouTube channel and ask her to get on IG-- the world needs more JShanee!
    3. SwanPro: SwanPro knows a thousand ways to tie a Gele. Her channel mainly focuses on makeup and bridal beauty, but her easy to follow Nigerian headwrap tutorials can transform anyone from Nubian inspired newbie to Nollywood Royalty. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or visit her site at http://swanprofessionals.com.
    4. Tina Marie78: Tina Marie proves that it is possible to have healthy natural hair after dyeing. Her protective styles are simple and her videos are short and sweet. Click the link above for her YouTube channel.


  1. The Curl Enhancers: Perfect stretched sets, wash and gos, twistouts and braidouts
    1. CoachShaunie: She’s four years post big chop and has bra-strap length hair. Her wash and go’s are on point, but her simple, sophisticated protective styles are what made me click subscribe. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @CoachShaunie.
    2. EleanorJ’adore: It could be the accent, but I actually feel classier when watching EleanorJ’adore’s videos. Whether she’s rocking a fluffed out fro, flat twists, or a wash and go, she always looks red carpet ready and has plenty of tips and tricks that will help keep your coils perfectly coiffed. Don’t hate her ‘cause she’s beautiful... and has perfect hair... and eyebrows... and that not-quite-British South African accent... I said don’t hate! Appreciate by clicking the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @eleanorjadore.
    3. LenaLoveCurls!: I wish Lena would post videos more often, but she’s like the Steely Dan of natural hair vloggers-- only hits, never misses. From heatless curls to stretched sets, LenaLoveCurls! #slays. Click the link above for her YouTube channel.


  1. The Mini-me Makers: Kids curls need love too!
    1. CherishMyDaughter: If you like videos without a lot (or any) chatter, you’ll love Cherish’s short and sweet kids styling vids. Click the link above for her YouTube channel or follow her on IG @cherishmydaughter.
    2. Glamour Kids Braids: From age appropriate sew-ins for teens to Caramel treatments for two year olds, Miss Shawna of Glamour Kids Braids keeps your little one’s locks looking lovely. She also has a testimonial video from a Dad on there that will warm even the coldest of hearts. Click the link above for her YouTube channel.
    3. 3NaturalSistas: is a kids style channel that is actually run by kids. The page is new, but these young ladies have already featured two amazing back to school styles for elementary aged naturals. Click the link above for their YouTube channel.


Whether you’re a natural noob or a seasoned textured-tress slayer, these vloggers are sure to inspire, enlighten, and elevate your style to the next level. I hope you enjoyed reading this piece as much as I enjoyed writing it.

Which up and coming vloggers do you want the world to know about? Let us know in the comments below!